All About Bondage

BDSM stands for bondage, domination, sadism and masochism. For some people BDSM is a way of life when it comes to sex. For other people it is just a way to spice up their sex life.

There are usually two parties involved, unless you are practicing self-bondage.

• The dominant (or top) gets its pleasure from the feeling of power of having over the other a control that is not normal in real life.
• The submissive (or bottom) gets his or her kick from the feeling of helplessness of not having control on what happens to him/her, of giving him/herself to the other in a way in which one doesn’t submits usually.

In BDSM are also included fetishes, that consist in reaching sexual arousal by elements that are not the usual ones, as leather costumes (traditional in the area), worship of the feet, kissing or smelling some clothing from the other, etc. There are also included the “water games”, as playing with urine or feces, and also dressing and acting as the opposite sex.

BDSM is, then, a word that encompasses many types of  fantasies, which sometimes have little in common but for being outside what is considered traditionally as “normal”.

Of course, nobody likes all this practices. Every one has his/her own fantasies, and sometimes you cannot understand how the other can enjoy something you find disgusting or directly revolting. But people are this way, and so should they be accepted.  “Your Kink is Not My Kink but Your Kink is Okay” (as long as it is consensual) (safe and sane depend on your point of view)

Dominating or being dominated, being helpless in the other’s hands or having the other helpless at your hands, receiving or giving spankings are sexual fantasies that  many (if not most) people enjoy.

So get your ropes and toys our and lets have some kinky fun!

You may call me Mr. Manes, Master or Sir. I’m beginning this blog to enlighten the many people in this world that would like to learn more about BDSM.